It is believed that beautiful women are single because they are too “full of themselves” to devote any time to anyone else. In the process of becoming a single woman, this could be true. At the beginning stage as a beautiful woman is breaking out of a relationship and into the realm of "bachelorism" she is looking for something "better." She is exhausted of the dead-end relationship she is in and has decided to take fate into her own hands and fulfill her wishes elsewhere.
In the beginning stage of this exhilaration of hope, the woman has a prototype of what she knows her "prince charming" to be and begins her "search." At this point, she is what some people would call self-absorbed or "full of herself." Because she has the power to appoint a new partner into her life, she feels a sense of revival and importance. Reflects the attitude of "I can choose whomever and reject whomever I please."
Can you blame her? For such a long time, a beautiful woman is caught in a prison of unfulfilled wishes and a sense of doubt is the only sense overwhelming her curiosity to explore life outside of unhappiness (otherwise known as the previous relationship or the "ex-boyfriend syndrome). Of course, in the beginning of this new voyage there is always doubt and fear to return to what she knows as comfortable- the wrong man- the man she has just decided wasn't good enough. Yet, after some evaluation and a few nights out with the girls, this fear and doubt is vanquished.
Yes, a NEWLY SINGLE beautiful woman is full of herself. Some may state how horrible it is and have their opinions on her flaws and worth to society, but in the same sense, understand WHY- because she deserves to be.
As long as it takes for that outcome to be reached, is as long as it will take to attain a satisfying relationship. After resolving and equating to a different solution, consider your possibilities and return to being "full of yourself." Not only will your spouse appreciate your sense of self-worth but so will you. Besides, you deserve it.
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I'm so FULL!!!!!
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